Thursday, May 29, 2008

It's time.

Well, I've been in a sort of funk ever since Grandma died. I generally avoided family functions because it caused me way too much anxiety to be around my family without Grandma. I've been perfectly content to just work my life away.

That is, until Memorial Day.

It was incredibly quiet at work that morning, so around noon, I called my mom to just check in and see how things were going. I literally felt my heart drop to the bottom of my chest while my mom told me about who all was there, what they were doing, etc.

I miss my family. I miss hearing the screen door slam and kids footsteps running through the house. I miss the sound of babies crying. I miss the quick trips down to Thomas Market. I miss the Malad Drive-In; I miss the craziness of a house full of people. I miss the sound of cars pulling up over the gravel. I miss my Grandma's wind chimes, and the constant background noise they are in Malad. I miss my cousins. I miss my Aunts and Uncles. I miss my Grandpa. I just miss my family.

This might seem like a pretty sad post, but it's so incredibly refreshing to realize this. I knew the time would come when I'd want to be near my family again--when I would be able to appreciate the impact and example my Grandma had on me, and at the same time let myself stop mourning her death. It's taken a while, but I finally feel like it's time.

4 comments:

Angie Adam said...

Latu!! We missed you too this weekend! Are you going to be around for Jordan's farewell? Hopefully we'll be able to see eachother then! Love you!

pamelasue said...

Nice post. I know where you are. I am so glad you will join us. We have missed you. A lot.

Dara McFarlane said...

i miss you latu! i hope you go to Jordan's Farewell! :)

The Maumau's said...

Welcome to earth! We've been waiting for you! Next, you need to "de-grouch-ify" yourself! hehehe just joking, you know I love you!